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SELF LOVE: Stay home

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Turn tv off, turn social media off (apart from @smileysociety of course ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‚), stop listening to news and just relax.
What’s happening out there, is happening out there ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ and as it doesn’t concern you as long as you are at home ๐Ÿก.
Look at it as extra time at home to read a book you’ve always wanted to read, to watch a movie or tv shows everybody is telling you about ๐ŸŽฌ, to take up some new hobby like decoupage or playing guitar ๐ŸŽธ, do yoga ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ, do home fitness ๐Ÿ’ช or do coloring like me ๐Ÿ˜
I find it sooo relaxing ๐Ÿ˜
What do you do these days?

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Genesis of evil

Iโ€™ve been watching โ€žMaleficentโ€ recently (you know the movie? ๐ŸŽฌ) and a thougth occured to me โ€“ are people originally good ๐Ÿ˜‡or bad ๐Ÿ˜ˆ? Or maybe neutral? When a person is born is he/she good and then becomes bad? Or is it bad straight away because of its fate or origin? ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ
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In the movie โ€žMaleficentโ€ (I know itโ€™s a movie but stillโ€ฆgot me thinking ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ) it is shown that the fae played by Angelina Jolie was good and of pure heart โคuntil she had that heart broken and been betrayed ๐Ÿ’”. Kind of same story with โ€žJokerโ€ (have you seen it? Sooo good! ๐Ÿ˜) โ€“ Arthur Fleck (played by Joaquin Phoenix) was a normal guy, bit of introvert but of good heart, he took care of his mother and wanted to become a famous comedian. But then it all changed. He had his heart broken by all this evil in the world and became Joker, a villain. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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I think we are all good in the beginning but sometimes things go wrong and people become cynical, they donโ€™t trust people and in the end they become bad ๐Ÿ˜ž. There are so many stories and examples of e.g. rapers who do what they do because theyโ€™ve been hurt in their childhood ๐Ÿ’”. Evil experiences/memories bring evil actions ๐Ÿ˜ฉ.
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But we must not let it โ—. We need to fight with evil ๐Ÿ‘Š. And whenever something bad happens, we need to stay good ๐Ÿ™. As the Bible says: โ€œDo Not Be Overcome by Evil, but Overcome Evil With Good.โ€ ๐Ÿค—
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When something bad happens do not look for vengeance ๐Ÿšซ. Stay good, be good. This is the only way to fight evil. ๐Ÿ‘Š
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When our mayor Paweล‚ Adamowicz was killed last year ๐Ÿ’” this is what his wife kept telling us, this is what our whole city kept repeating โ€“ to fight evil with good, to stay united ๐Ÿค.
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And that is the best way to do, believe me.
Just be good. ๐Ÿ™
I believe there are more good people than bad ones in this world and we need to keep it this way ๐Ÿ™

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Love Yourself

Love yourself. โค
You wonโ€™t achieve much if you donโ€™t start with your inner peace and inner love ๐Ÿ™.
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You wonโ€™t get people to love you and to compliment you until you love yourself, until youโ€™re confident ๐Ÿ’ช
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You wonโ€™t get people to accept you until you accept you.
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Whatever you do, start with yourself.
Whatever you want to change, change yourself and your thinking first.
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Can a salesman sell a product if he doesnโ€™t believe it works?
Can a motivational speaker motivate others if he/she isnโ€™t motivated himself/heself?
Can an actor do a difficult role and act well if he doesnโ€™t believe he is good enough? ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ
No.
It all starts with this one person believing in himself/herself, in loving himself/herself.
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And so you need to believe in yourself and love yourself.
Once you have that you can find true love, you can pull an audience, command the crowds, you can be admired by manyโ€ฆ you can do anything! ๐Ÿ’ช
Love yourself.๐Ÿ™


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Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas you filthy animals! ๐Ÿ˜œ
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I wish you that the time and the world would stop during this special time ๐Ÿ™. Let all the problems and all the anxieties float away and dive into relaxing time with your family and friends. ๐Ÿ’œ
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Let yourself loose. This is your relax time. You need it. You deserve it. Enjoy it. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Warm hugs & kisses! ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜ Pola

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Being different

Here are 5 reasons why BEING DIFFERENT is GOOD! ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐ŸŽค ๐Ÿ”†1.You are BRAVE and couragous to stand out ๐Ÿ’ช Not everyone can be such, usually people want to blend in. ๐Ÿ”†2. You are INDEPENDENT, you donโ€™t follow social trends ๐Ÿค— ๐Ÿ”†3. You have bigger chance to SUCCEED as nobody has succeeded by doing what everybody else was doing, you need to be unique, you need to set a new, original path ๐Ÿ›ฃ ๐Ÿ”†4. You are more INTERESTING as youโ€™re not just a copy of somebody else ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ”†5. You are STRONGER by having to live with people staring at you or talking about you, not everybody can stand it ๐Ÿ’ช
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Hope that is enough to show you that being different is good. That it is actually BETTER than being ordinary.
Now go and be different!
Go and be you! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Travelling

Do you travel? Is it just pleasure to you or something more?
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For me travelling is so much more. It is pleasure and chill from work obviously but when I travel I feel free ๐Ÿค—. I forget about all my problems back home, I forget about my โ€žto doโ€ list, I stop worrying, stop planning, I am trully free just enjoying here & now ๐Ÿ™.
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This is why I have โ€žTravelling sets me freeโ€™ tattooed on my arm ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Setting all the chill and pleasure aside, I still think travelling has so much more to offer. What? Knowledge. Openness. Distance. Courage. Respect. Oh and more and more and more! ๐Ÿ™
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Thanks to travelling I not only learn geography, history of places I visit or about local cuisine but I also learn about different cultures. I learn about different people. ๐Ÿ™
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Thanks to travelling, or actually thanks to the time Iโ€™ve been in living in London in years 2013-2014 among many different people of different natonalities, different races, I got more open. I started learning about different cultures, different religions, different habits. I learned that what may be obscue and totally weird for me, for my culture, may be totally normal for other. We are all people but we are all different. And that is beautiful. โค
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Thanks to travelling I gained even more respect towards different cultures, different natonalities, different races. Sadly many people in my country are homophobic, xenophobic or even racists ๐Ÿ˜ก. Me? Totally not. For me you can be afro-american gay Jew and I still will have respect for you ๐Ÿ˜˜. Because this is what it is (or should be) about โ€“ respect. ๐Ÿค We should all respect each other and as long as you wonโ€™t be rude or unfriendly to me I will respect you and be friendly to you. That is my rule.
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Travelling teaches a lot, not only about places but mainly about the people and the fact that we are all different and that it is ok.
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What do you think?
Do you agree?

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Gratitude

One of the main and easiest ways to happiness is being GRATEFUL.
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Are you grateful for what you have? If youโ€™re thinking โ€žwhat do I have to be grateful for?!โ€ youโ€™re probably one of those people who have lots but donโ€™t appreciate it. You donโ€™t have to be a millionaire or have a perfect life to be grateful. People tend to think that they donโ€™t have anything to be grateful because theyโ€™re not rich or because they have some problems. ALL people have problems. Poor ones and rich ones. โš ๏ธ
But the key is to appreciate what you have.
Are you healthy?
Do you have a place to live?
Do you have food in your fridge? Do you have family?
Do you have friends?
Do you have both legs?
Are you able to see, hear, talk? There are so many things /aspects that we need to be grateful for yet most of us take those things for granted.
People keep thinking that it is an absurd to be grateful that we see or have both legs. That it is a given. Well sadly not for everyone. Imagine not having that. I am grateful I am healthy, able to see, hear and walk everyday! โคโคโค The truth is, there are many people who lost their legs, are blind, deaf or very sick but still can appreciate life and be happy and those are the people we should follow and learn from them! ๐Ÿ’ช
Do you have both parents? I know this may not be as simple as the 1st question in the age of divorces but even if you have only one parent you are still more lucky than all those poor children living in shelter houses.
Did you have dinner today? So simple right? Yet still, if you have, you are still more lucky than millions of people in the world who starve to death.
You have PLENTY OF THINGS TO BE GRATEFUL FOR! You just need to learn to see them. ๐Ÿ‘€
You can do an easy exercise โ€“ write down what are you grateful for on a piece of paper and put it in a jar. Keep doing it for next 30 days. Youโ€™ll see how many things you have to be grateful for! + when youโ€™ll have a bad day you can read them all and it will make you feel better. ๐Ÿ˜Š

What are you grateful for?