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What I’ve learned this year

Look deep into my eyes. What do you see? Confidence! 😎

I’ve learned a lot this year and I feel that I’ve grown as a person.
This year I finally accepted myself as I am 👍 I stopped feeling sorry for being the way I am and I’ve been encouraging people to understand that we are all different and you can’t meassure or judge everything with same standards/meassurements 🤷🏼‍♀️

For example, I am an analytical kind of person 🧐. I analyze lots of things, I plan lots of things, I need to have an order in everything and have everything organized 🤪. I feel calm when I have everything written down and everything planned 😇.

But e.g. my husband is not like that 🤷🏼‍♀️. So whenever he wanted to do something spontaneous together or plan some evening for me I felt nervous (Don’t get me wrong, I do get spontaneous from time to time but not when I have a busy week – e.g. preparing everything for an Advent Calendar 😜)
It took some time but he now understands that this is how I want things 🤗

But it works both ways! I used to be mad at him for not planning ahead or for not being orgnized. But that’s just how he is 🤷🏼‍♀️. He doesn’t need unnatural order in everything as I do. I used to be mad that he doesn’t remember me telling him something but his memory just isn’t as good as mine or, actually, it is as good but he just remembers different things 🤷🏼‍♀️ – I have good memory for facts, plans, for details and he remembers every movie and a last name of pretty much every person he’s ever met! 😅 We’re just different!

We are all different and we all want different things. Don’t judge somebody for not wanting something you want or for having something you find unappealing 🤷🏼‍♀️

Don’t feel sorry for a woman that has been single her whole life, maybe she wants to be alone? 😉 Talk, listen. Stop looking weird at a married couple that doesn’t have kids – maybe they don’t want traditional Graduate-Get Married-Have Kids lifestyle. Talk, listen. 😉

Stop looking at people through your own opinions and your own character. Maybe something that drives you crazy is good for another person? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Be positive!

Happy Halloween

Happy Halloween! 🎃
Here’s that one day when you can be someone else but remember tomorrow, when you go back to being yourself, that you’re perfect just the way you are! 🤗😘


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Don’t compare yourself

⚠️ DON’T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS ⚠️
We tend to compare ourselves to people around us. We want to be richer than a guy next to us, prettier than every girl in the room, smarter than your boss and better than all the people in the world. As much as I encourage to get motivated by others, work on your dreams and get on your way to success, you can’t get crazy over that, you need to find that limit. While you work your ass off to beat everybody else just stop and appreciate YOU. 😊Think what you’ve done, what you’ve accomplished. It is good to be INSPIRED by somebody else and to have that as motivation for you to work but you CAN’T get sad or lose confidence over somebody’s success. ⚠️ Unless you can get motivation from it, don’t compare yourself to others. You know why? Cause there’s always going to be somebody smarter, somebody prettier, somebody better than you. That’s just how it is and you CAN’T keep comparing yourself to others or you’ll get stuck in „never enough” zone and you’ll keep wanting more, keep pushing yourself further instead of realising how amazing and good you already are!!! 😘
Instead of competing with everybody around you just be BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF. If you hear somebody smarter, learn from him, listen to his/her story. Maybe you’ll decide to e.g. read more or to learn another language if that’s what impresses you in that person. If you see somebody looking good in a swimsuit don’t get envy but work on your body to be confident with yourself. If you see somebody richer don’t be jealous, think how YOU can get there, what YOU can do to achieve that 👏
BUT at the same time, remember that in some other category you are better than that person. You may get impressed by somebody’s body but I am sure that you have some talent that he/she doesn’t. You may see somebody rich but I’m sure he/she is missing something that you have (e.g. a relationship, a family, health). You may think a smart man knows so many things that you don’t but i am SURE that you know something that he/she doesn’t. 😊

We all have our values and in some way we are both worse AND better than everybody else.⚠️