Motivation

What is success to you?

What is success to you? 🤔 What does being successful really mean? 🤔 Is it having lots of money? 💰 Being smart? 🧠 Looking good? 😎
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I’m gonna break something to you and you might feel bad but you need to be aware of that 😉: there’s always gonna be someone more beautiful 😎,  someone smarter 🧠 and, unless you’re Jeff Bezos, someone richer 💰. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be successful!
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Being successful isn’t being THE BEST. It’s being better than average. Being successul is being better than you were a month ago 💪. That’s a success!
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The best and the only scale you should be comparing your current self isn’t to other people because this might have the opposite effect, it’s comparing your current self to your past self! 😉
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As long as there’s progress there and a positive difference you’re successful! 😊
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This is healthy competition and both easiest and hardest to have! But if you’re progressing, if you’re going forward this is success!
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Do you agree?

Be positive!

Queens

Girls (this posts is strictly for girls), how many girls out of your surrounding do you admire?
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How many girls (in everyday life or e.g. here on ig) inspire you? How many girls would you like to switch places with? 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Now, how many girls have you said that, how you feel, that you admire her/them, that she’s doing good? 👍
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How many girls have said anything like that to you? How many girls feel motivated by you? Are they open about that?
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I feel like there’s some unhealthy competition between us, girls 🤷🏼‍♀️ Each one has to (or actually feels like they have to) be better than others. Some girls once they see others succeed get angry and jealous. Some even start to say bad things about the other one out of the jealousy.
Is this healthy?
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If some other girl succeeded you should be happy for her! You should congratulate her! 🤗Don’t be angry with her! Her achieving some goal doesn’t mean you can’t! It’s not like there’s limited place for successful ones!
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We should be all helping each other! Fixing our crowns! 👑 Motivating each other! Congratulating each other! 😚
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We are powerful together! And only when we stick together! 🤝
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Stop saying bad things about a girl who hasn’t done anything wrong but got successful. Take her as an example, be inspired, motivated by her! 😉
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There’s this saying I really like that fits here perfectly: „A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms”.
Don’t look at others (unless it’s for inspiration and motivation). Just bloom. 🌸