Smiley Future

Smiley Future – Step 8

🧠SMILEY FUTURE🧠 — Step 8
Last week we talked about your strenghts 👍. Today let’s talk about your wekanesses 👎. I know it may not be pleasant but it’s an important thing to do. In couple steps you’re gonna use your weaknesses to prepare a „plan b” for situation that may complicate achieving your goal.
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You can divide weaknesses into internal restrictions (your character) and external restictions (e.g. lack of knowledge, lack of time, not being understood by others, difficult situations).
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Try to answer couple questions:
· What kind of knowledge you don’t have but need for your goal?
· What part of your character can become an obstacle in reaching your goal? How can it complicate your plans?
· What types of situations are the hardest for you when it comes to following your dream? If it happened in the past what was the most challenging in it for you?
· What would your close ones mention as your weakness?
· What is difficult for you? What will be biggest challenge for you while following your dream?

Next week: Creating plan based on your strenghts

Source: @chodakowskaeka‘s new book “90 days – design your tomorrow”

Health · Smiley Future

Smiley Future – Step 3

🧠SMILEY FUTURE🧠
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Let’s get back to our circle of life. Remember it, right? You will find it in ‘Smiley future’ section.
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Today time to think about your health 🥦
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As usual – mark on your circle of life how happy you are about your health in a scale from 1 to 10.
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Here are the questions that will help you mark that subject:
* Do you think this part needs change? If yes, what would have to change?
* In what way are you active physically 💪? Is it well suited in its kind and intensivity?
* Lack of sleep is plague of those times 😴 Lots of people think that they can work more or have some fun at the expense of their sleep time, while research shows that lack of sleep has bad impact on your health and especially on your cognitive abilities (so memory, attention and ability to learn). Do you sleep long enough? 🛌 What’s the quality of your sleep? Do you fall asleep and wake up at similar times or is your sleeping rhythm dysregulated?
* It is easy to forget about health prevention when nothing is wrong with you but it is prevention itself and early diagnosis that help catch alarming symptoms before they get annoying or severe. Do you examine yourself regularly? Do you know that types of examinations and how often you should do? 💉💊
* What will you gain by those changes?
* What will happen if you don’t change anything about your health?
* In what way does health have an impact on other aspects of your life now?

Next week: Finances 💰

Source: @chodakowskaeka‘s new book “90 days – design your tomorrow”

Smiley Future

Smiley Future – Step 2

🧠SMILEY FUTURE🧠
— Step 2 —
Let’s get back to our circle of life (you’ll find it in Downloads section in BIO).
Today time to think about your career 👩‍🎨👨🏻‍🎓👨🏿‍⚖ It can be your work, studies or school. If you’re not working at the moment because you’re on maternity leave or on holidays do not miss out on this part.
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As usual – mark on your circle of life how happy you are about your career in a scale from 1 to 10.
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Here are the questions that will help you mark that subject:
* Do you think this part needs change? If yes, what would have to change?
* What will you gain by those changes?
* What will happen if you don’t change it?
* In what way does career have an impact on other aspects of your life now?

Next week: Health 🥦

Source: @chodakowskaeka‘s new book “90 days – design your tomorrow”

Smiley Future

New segment – SMILEY FUTURE

I’ll be starting a new section for you, lets call it „SMILEY FUTURE” 😎
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For this part i’ll be using @chodakowskaewa new book „90 days – design your tomorrow” but also other psychological books 📚. It will come as excercises for you and I’ll  be posting it once a week, on Tuesdays 😉.
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In order to follow your dreams and to become successful you need to plan your strategy of changes and in order to to that you need to summarize what you have, what you are proud of and what you don’t like in your life first 📝.
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There is this famous excercise among psychologists and/or coaches called „The circle of life”. It is a circle divided into seperate segments of life like „Relations”, „Finances”, „Career” etc. You mark how sattisfied you are with each segment on a scale from 1 to 10. 🤗
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You can see examples of a circle of life and a filled one attached here. We’re gonna work on a smaller circle divided into 6 parts (last photo) but if you feel the need to divide it into more parts then you can do it too. 😉
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We’ll divide each segment into seperate day and we’ll start with ‘Relations’ today. (Come back next Tuesday for another segment – ‘Career’)!
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Before you mark the answer on your circle answer those questions:
* How satisfied are you with relations in your life in a scale from 1 to 10?
*Does this segment need changing? What would you like to change?
*What will you gain by changing it?
*What will happen if you don’t change it?
*In what way do the relations have impact on the rest of the segments of your life? 💥
This is just for you, answer those question honestly.
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Next week: Career and once we have all the segments done you’ll know exactly what you need to work on.

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Be positive!

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Always remember that no amount of guilt can solve the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future. ⚠️
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Once you learn that, life becomes so much easier, so much better. I guarantee you’ll stress less.
Because why would stress over past events? Do you have an impact on them? Can you change the past? 🤷🏼‍♀️ No. You don’t have an influence on it and can’t control it so just get over it!
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If you made some mistake just draw conclussions, learn a lesson, move on and remember not to repeat it next time! 😉 We all make mistakes, millionaires make mistakes and that’s ok. The key is to never let it bother you too much, to learn and not give up. 💪
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Do you stress over future? Why would you? 🤷🏼‍♀️ If you can change some things, change them. If you’re worried about some unknown stuff no one can predict, just let it be. What happens, happens. You’ll deal with it when that day comes, now don’t think about it. 🤗
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Your life is in your hands and i’m sure you’ll handle whatever comes. Now just sit down and don’t worry in advance. 🙃