Self-evolving

Forgive and forget?

Do you know the saying „Forgive and forget”? Do you agree? I do but in half. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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We definitely should forgive but why should we forget? If, for example, someone let us down or, even worse, hurt us why should we forget about it?
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Forgive – sure (when you’re ready) but we should still remember about it. We should remember to e.g. never trust that person again. We should remember this mistake we made (e.g. in trusting someone), draw conclussions and never make it again. 🤗
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It may be harsh but nowadays we really need to be careful who we trust, believe me. I think, and I reckon you will all agree with me, we want friends who we can count on, who will never betray us, who we can rely on. 👭👬 And I know this friendship exists. It may be harder to find, it may take some work to keep it alive but it is so important to have that one good friend in life. ❤ That’s right, one is enough. Go for quality, not quantity. 🙏
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I am very careful who I call a „friend” so I don’t have many of them (I have plenty buddies/acquaintances though!) but I do have some people who would do anything for me and I’d do anything for them 🤗. That’s what friendship should be about. Love, laughter, help and trust. 💕
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So I say forgive but don’t forget. Choose your friends wisely.

Be positive!

No impact

Always remember that no amount of guilt can solve the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future. ⚠️
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Once you learn that, life becomes so much easier, so much better. I guarantee you’ll stress less.
Because why would stress over past events? Do you have an impact on them? Can you change the past? 🤷🏼‍♀️ No. You don’t have an influence on it and can’t control it so just get over it!
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If you made some mistake just draw conclussions, learn a lesson, move on and remember not to repeat it next time! 😉 We all make mistakes, millionaires make mistakes and that’s ok. The key is to never let it bother you too much, to learn and not give up. 💪
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Do you stress over future? Why would you? 🤷🏼‍♀️ If you can change some things, change them. If you’re worried about some unknown stuff no one can predict, just let it be. What happens, happens. You’ll deal with it when that day comes, now don’t think about it. 🤗
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Your life is in your hands and i’m sure you’ll handle whatever comes. Now just sit down and don’t worry in advance. 🙃

Be positive!

Never look back

Never look back. What happened, happened.
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If it was a good thing then good for you but if something bad happened then just let it be 🤷🏼‍♀️. Or better yet – learn from it. Do you know what trully changed my mindset? What changed it all for me? Learning to look different at failures – in bad times instead of asking yourself „Why is this happening to me?” ask yourself „What is this trying to teach me?”. This makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. It did for me.
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You can’t change past. Don’t overthink about it then. You don’t have any impact on that now.
What you can do is learn. Learn from your mistakes, from your decisions, from your choices. Next time you’ll do better! 🤗
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So tell me, what did life teach you lately? What mistake did you make?

Self-evolving

Never look back

Never look back. What happened, happened. If it was a good thing then good for you but if something bad happened then just let it be. Or better yet – learn from it. Do you know what trully changed my mindset? What changed it all for me? Learning to look different at failures – in bad times instead of asking yourself „Why is this happening to me?” ask yourself „What is this trying to teach me?”. This makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. It did for me.

You can’t change past. Don’t overthink about it then. You don’t have any impact on that now.

What you can do is learn. Learn from your mistakes, from your decisions, from your choices. Next time you’ll do better!

So tell me, what did life teach you lately? What mistake did you make?

My husband and I are still arranging our new apartment that we got in April and boy did we make a lot of mistakes there! We didnt’ put enough electric contacts in the kitchen (or in whole apartment really), we did a bad set up in bathroom and made it look smaller than it is, we did mad meassures in kitchen and one cupboard is a bit higher than the rest…the list is long but believe me, those weren’t failures, it was just lessons that we got here and we won’t do same mistakes in our next apartment in couple years.