Smiley Future

Smiley Future – Step 24

Today I want you to think about your attitude towards making mistakes 🤔. Don’t deny it, we all make them 😉.
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The question is – what do you do next with them 🤷🏼‍♀️? Do you think of yourself too negatively, too strictly, blame yourself 😞? Or maybe you can look at your mistakes as inseparable element of being human, learning, risking and trying new things 🤗?
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Do you know how to treat your mistakes as valuable lesson, how to withdraw conclussion and move on? 😉
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You’re probably wondering what does an attitude towards making mistakes has to do with strongwill 🧠? If you’re too strict to yourself because of mistakes or failures you’ll easily get into „everything or nothing” thinking (I told you about it in step 15). And this leads to giving up and letting the rest of the plan go 😞
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Task for today is  to think about that and answer questions below:
* How do you treat your mistakes?
* What do you think of them?
* What do you feel then?

Write your answers down 📝

Next week: Be good to yourself
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Source: @chodakowskaewa‘s new book “90 days – design your tomorrow”

Be positive!

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Always remember that no amount of guilt can solve the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future. ⚠️
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Once you learn that, life becomes so much easier, so much better. I guarantee you’ll stress less.
Because why would stress over past events? Do you have an impact on them? Can you change the past? 🤷🏼‍♀️ No. You don’t have an influence on it and can’t control it so just get over it!
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If you made some mistake just draw conclussions, learn a lesson, move on and remember not to repeat it next time! 😉 We all make mistakes, millionaires make mistakes and that’s ok. The key is to never let it bother you too much, to learn and not give up. 💪
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Do you stress over future? Why would you? 🤷🏼‍♀️ If you can change some things, change them. If you’re worried about some unknown stuff no one can predict, just let it be. What happens, happens. You’ll deal with it when that day comes, now don’t think about it. 🤗
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Your life is in your hands and i’m sure you’ll handle whatever comes. Now just sit down and don’t worry in advance. 🙃

Be positive!

Never look back

Never look back. What happened, happened.
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If it was a good thing then good for you but if something bad happened then just let it be 🤷🏼‍♀️. Or better yet – learn from it. Do you know what trully changed my mindset? What changed it all for me? Learning to look different at failures – in bad times instead of asking yourself „Why is this happening to me?” ask yourself „What is this trying to teach me?”. This makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE. It did for me.
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You can’t change past. Don’t overthink about it then. You don’t have any impact on that now.
What you can do is learn. Learn from your mistakes, from your decisions, from your choices. Next time you’ll do better! 🤗
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So tell me, what did life teach you lately? What mistake did you make?