Smiley Future

Smiley Future – Step 45

Take that step into future! 😉

Do you remember our previous steps about sabotaging thoughts? 🤔 Have you managed to work on them and create your helpful recreation or helpful reaction? 🧐 If yes – wonderful! 🤗 Now start using them in practice.
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Here are some examples of sabotaging thoughts and answers to them taken from „The Beck Diet Solution: Train Your Brain to Think Like a Thin Person” book by Judith Beck 📖
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➡️Situation: Reaching your goal will affect your family’s life 😐
🧠Sabotaging thought: I can’t put my needs first above the others 🤷🏼‍♀️
❤Helpful reaction: I can try reaching for goal that is imporant to me.Time to start thinking about my own needs 👊🏻. My family should eat healthy too, limit fattening products, it will be good for them as well. 😊
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➡️Situation: You don’t let yourself have any satisfaction until you lose as much weight as possible 😬
🧠Sabotaging thought: As long as I won’t reach my target weight I won’t feel any satisfaction. I don’t deserve any prizes until I lose as much weight as possible 🙄
❤Helpful reaction: I need to learn to be happy about small successes 🤩. Celebrarting every 2 kgs lost will make me feel better and will strenghten my belief in myself! 😎
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➡️ Situation: Temptation 😟
🧠Sabotaging thought: I deserve to eat anything that I want 🤷🏼‍♀️
❤Helpful reaction: If I want to benefit and stay thin I can’t eat anything I want. It is more important to lose weight and feel good than to spontanously decide what to eat 🤗
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Remember, those are only examples (although I really am often in situation nr 3 😅😳) that should help you understand the idea of creating helpful reaction/supporting thought for sabotaging thought 🙂.
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Create your helpful reactions that fit your individual situation and personality. You are the expert of yourself! 😚
 
Next week: Appreciate your hard work!
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Source: @chodakowskaewa‘s new book “90 days – design your tomorrow”

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A homeless man rescued all the animals at a shelter after it caught on fire
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Be positive!

Little things

There is this saying, one of my favourites, „Not everyday is good but there is something good in everyday” and I so agree! 😊
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Even though this year has been tough to all of us I am more than sure that we could find something good in all of those days! Like the color of the sky, smell of flowers or somebody being nice to you! 😊
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Last 3 months have been very very tough for me, healthwise 🤕, workwise 🙄, many family issues 😟, some friends let me down 😏…believe me, it has not been easy 🤷🏼‍♀️ and in the end when I was thinking that the only positive issue this year (besides my covid test 2 months ago 😜) is my financial situation, I got half of my usual salary today 🤦🏼‍♀️ and even though it’s all good now and it turned out to be a mistake by somebody in HR I won’t get the missing half until January 🤷🏼‍♀️… so 2020 misery goes on 🙄
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BUT! Even though it’s been so tough I managed to see some good in everyday, to get excited about something every week, to be happy despite all the problems and that’s how positive mind works! 😉
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I’ve been admiring beautiful sunrises and sunsets 🌄 (I am pretty sure that the most beautiful sunrises and sunsets in Poland are in December), I’ve been veeeery creative and doing plenty DIY stuff that you’ve seen/see in Smiley Advent Calendar 😁, I’ve been doing silly sketches and dances with my husband to make our moods better 🤪, I’ve been admiring beautiful fruity smell of my favourite shower gel each day 😍, I’ve been more and more excited about upcoming Xmas creating beautiful Xmas decorations 🎄, I’ve been grateful for every help that I got either from a stranger on a street or from a colleague at work 😉… there is so much good around us we just need to notice it! 🤗

Now tell me something good that happened to you today!

P.s. Here’s a little extra from today’s Smiley Advent Calendar box on my Instagram:

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A Florida man just paid off the past dues for 114 families at risk of having their utilities shut off
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Denmark to stop North Sea oil drilling in 2050
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This Indian teacher bags $1mn award! Promptly donates half of Rs7 crore prize money
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London’s homeless to be given two-week stay in hotels over Christmas
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Global sustainable fishing initiative agreed by 14 countries
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Kind-hearted mystery woman walks into a toy shop and pays off ALL the lay-bys-worth $16,000 – to help families struggling at Christmas time
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Curious koala sneaks into Australian home and climbs Christmas tree

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Be positive! · handmade

5 Positive apps

Are you following me on Instagram?
I changed my Instagram Feed into 1 big Advent Calendar! 🤩
There’s already been couple tutorials for homemade Xmas decorations, homemade Xmas gifts and plenty other surprises!

Here’s what was inside “box” nr 5! 🙂

5 positive apps for you!

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New Zealand couple gift pristine land worth millions to the nation 🌳
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Couple who cancelled wedding due to Covid uses catering deposit to give Thanksgiving meals to needy 🍜
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Scotland Becomes 1st Country To Make Period Products Free 💸
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Marked improvement in Europe’s air quality over past decade, fewer deaths linked to pollution 😇
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Downtown Phoenix apartment complex waived December rent for residents 💸
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Swipe left to read more!

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P.s.
Only 1 day left to:
🎄Smiley Advent Calendar 🎄
Starting Dec 1st for the next 24 days my Instagram Feed will change into 1 big Advent Calendar! 🤩
Visit my profile every day for a special surprise! 🎁
I’ll be posting a special carousel post each day and as you swipe left you’ll get a special surprise, just like in an Advent Calendar box! 😁🎁
In the Smiley Advent Calendar you’ll find:
➡️ 6 ideas for homemade Xmas presents
➡️ 6 ideas for homemade Xmas decorations
➡️ 3 ideas for self-love time
➡️ 3 positive Xmas movies recommendations and recipes for a Xmassy snack
➡️ and more useful and positive surprises!

Follow me on Instagram to see what I have prepared for all of you! 🙂

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Time for positive news!

An endangered white rhino was born at Disney’s Animal Kingdom theme park 🦏
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12-Year-Old Boy Makes More Than 100 Baseball Bats from Fallen Branches of Derecho Storm, Raising Money for Victims 💰
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Jeff Bezos Created $10 Billion ‘Earth Fund’ to Meet Climate Crisis, First Grants of $800M Go to Iconic Environmental Groups 🤩
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Filipino wins sustainability award for solar panel made from waste crop 🏆
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COVID-hit mother wakes up from coma to find she has given birth to twins 👶👶

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Time for positive news! 🤗
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Vaccine alliance raises $2 billion to buy COVID shots for poor nations 💉
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Roadside weed is found to halt the spread of breast cancer without damaging healthy cells 🤩
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Nigerian-Irish teens develop a dementia app for sufferers coping with lockdown–and it’s won awards 📱
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Gender gap narrows as more girls enrol in schools, shows report 👩‍🎓
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Nevada becomes first state to protect same-sex marriage in its constitution

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